What is the secret of life?

The secret is there is no secret. Life is what you make of it. If you keep a positive attitude towards life then positive things will happen to you. On the other hand, if you are negative then negative things will happen to you. It takes more energy to frown than to smile, therefore its easier to be optomistic. I know that sometimes it is hard to be optamistic, especially when your teen-age daughter is saying what is wrong with my room being messy i have to live with it not you. or you can't tell me what i can do with my cell phone when i pay for the cell service. Yeah life throws you curve balls, its all in how you deal with it.